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Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider
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The Rules Consultation Corp  
Phone: (212) 388-7910
E-mail:
consult@therulesbook.com  
Fax: (973) 422-0048

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Dating and Relationship Coaches

Reduced Rates with Certified Rules Dating & Relationship Coaches

These certified Rules Dating & Relationship Coaches (listed below in alphabetical order) were trained by us in a 12-week course. Their rates are as follows: $50 for a half-hour phone consultation, $50 for an e-mail consultation, and $25 for a quick e-mail question. Contact them directly for appointments and payment; do not contact us. E&S

When writing to Rules Coaches, please put in the subject of the e-mail: The Rules Book otherwise the e-mails may get deleted in the spam process.

Emily, Tokyo, Japan, Married, Office worker.
star7@aquarius.livedoor.com
The Rules has improved my life dramatically. I would like to share The Rules with women who are looking for Mr. Right!

Momo, Hong Kong, China, Engaged
Assistant to President
rulescoach@gmail.com
852-6077-2015
When I met my fiancee, I decided to follow The Rules because he is the man of my dreams. I want to share this great experience with many others.

Shira, Fort Lee, New Jersey, married.
(201) 220-5338
showmetherules@aol.com
When I (unknowingly) broke rules in the past, the results were unsatisfying and frustrating. Then I did The Rules, even when I didn't understand or agree with some of them, and I got married. I wouldn't recommend or do TR if they didn't work!

Shiroko3, Fukuoko, Japan, 35 years old, graduate student, major in psychology, single.
E-mail: shiroko77@gmail.com
Website: http://ameblo.jp/rules1-sync/
The Rules leads you to the happy life! Every woman who does TR is loved and cared for by her husband and his family.

Yukko, Tokyo, Japan, 33 years old
libra_sunflower@yahoo.co.jp
E-mail consulting only
I have learned to be treated valuably from The Rules. So many more men have been interested in me now in my 30s than in my 20s when I didn't know TR. Everyone, even women, treat me better. Every weekend I date other men. I never thought this would happen to me!

Cathy A., Kanagawa, Japan, 42, author, Rules consultant and translator, divorced
rulesjapan(a)aol.com (Anytime, when sending e-mail change (a) to @)
The rules are totally true! When I learn to act right, men just react to respect and treat me like their dreamgirl! Recently proposed to by a man.  The rules work well!

Karen A., Connecticut, single and dating.
(203) 241-0633
prettypetal1@sbcglobal.net
The Rules philosophy has helped me weed out Mr. Wrongs and led me to see how respecting the differences between men and women can have fabulous payoffs in a relationship, like electricity, ease and being adored by the man of your dreams.

Shalisha A., New York, New York, 40, Legal Secretary, Single.
(646) 861-2718
E-mail: shalisha@hesmadaboutyou.com 
Website: http://hesmadaboutyou.com
Practicing The Rules has given me my dignity and self-respect around men, which I never had. I feel confident around men, not needy and desperate.

Marla Bishop, London, England, 43, sales (aromatherapy), married.
(011) (44) 207 275 8205
therulesadvice@hotmail.com (Available: Thursday and Friday 10am-1pm)
After 12 years of on and off dating, my boyfriend became my husband.

Angelique Broers, Amsterdam, The Netherlands, 40 years old, image consultant, single and dating
E-mail: info@tradart.nl
Website: http://www.tradart.nl/
Phone: 0031 475 564248
Available: 9 am - 9 pm every day
The rules learned to love myself! I save much more money and have much more time because men are chasing me now! I feel great.

Debbie C., San Diego, CA, 32, Teacher, Married.
(858) 335-0318
dlcinca2@cox.net
Availability: Evenings and weekends
The Rules have helped me set boundaries, date successfully, and eventually marry Mr. Right!

Ellen C., New York City and Long Island; social worker; single, dating.
(212) 613-5455
Available: 9 am-10 pm
In helping women to do The Rules, you see how The Rules empower women and how men pursue them and propose.

Jag Carrao, Malibu, 41, Writer/Coach, Married
(805) 341-5635
maliburulesgirl@aol.com
Available Mon-Fri 12-2 and 6:30-9 p.m., all weekend, PST
Doing TR helped me keep things real and weed out everyone but the man who really, really loves me. Now I want to help you break out of self-destructive patterns and let your husband find you -- as soon as possible!

Diana D., Miami, FL, Social Worker and Graduate Student, Single, 38
(305) 562-7907 to set up appointment
dianadiaz0825@hotmail.com
I do not dwell as much as I used to on past relationships. I just say "It didn't work out, next!" The Rules success stories really inspire me to be more rulesy so that my future husband finds me.

Dr. Dani, MA, Actress and Coach, 32, single and dating
(781) 283-0781, (800) ASK-KEEN, ext. 02726169
e-mail address available for e-mail consultations
Availability: By appointment
Telephone Support Group Monday, 7-8 PM ET (Eastern Time). Contact Dr. Dani at (781) 283-0781 for call access information.
I am 100% certain that The Rules work! Men respond to action and as Rules girls we need to act as if any man would be lucky to have us and then just do The Rules.

Karina Dufty, East Brunswick, New Jersey, 29, logistics analyst, married.
(732) 951-4286 (Mon-Fri 9 am-4 pm)
kdufty@verizon.net (24/7)
The Rules helped me date with self-esteem and marry my husband.

Janice E, IL, greater Chicago/Milwaukee area, 47, Writer and Coach, happily remarried. ilrulesgrrrl@aol.com
Sick of dating without self-respect? I explain HOW and WHY The Rules work so you can build a great relationship and beautiful Rules marriage, as I did. E-mail today for empathetic, in-depth, straight-up advice.

Jae Ellis, Northern VA / DC, 31, Dating Coach, In a relationship.
(703) 537-8244 (e-mail first to schedule a call)
romeo@askromeo.com
Availability: Evenings and Weekends
The Rules are the path to a wonderfully alluring feminine presence that catches the heart of Mr. Right.

Dr. Linda C. Fernandez, New York City, 50, psychologist, divorced, dating.
(212) 769-4004
drlindacf@cs.com
Available: Mon-Thurs 12noon-2pm
I learned that love is easy when you do The Rules because you are not trying to make someone love you and you are really taking very good care of yourself at the same time which is very attractive to men.

Maggie Fortier, New Jersey, filmmaker/photographer, divorced.
(215) 901-5602
coolappraisal6@yahoo.com 
Available: You can try me during regular biz hours and in evenings but I may not always be able to speak right away. But you can leave a msg.
TR has given me a sense of self back that years of dating and bad relating without TR took away. I can now follow TR and hang back and see if the man is really interested in me for a change. Thanks TR.

Dr. Dagmar G., Graz, Austria, 28, medical doctor/astrologer, single.
Tel: 43 0316 21 37 53, email: therules@gmx.net, preferred times: 2 - 10 p.m.
I used to blame myself for being too shy to talk to a man first and considered myself 'weak' when I could not 'fight' for a man. Now that I know The Rules, I am glad that this was wrong and that it is the other way around...man must pursue woman.

Dr. Marilee Garfield, DSW, White Plains, NY, Psychotherapist, widowed, 10 year old son, successfully dating (several proposals of marriage).
(914) 761-8514
marylee96@verizon.net
Available: Anytime, for private email consults/face to face sessions/telephone sessions.
I believe The Rules is the ultimate self-esteem guide for dating/married women. Being personally trained by Ellen and Sherrie was the thrill of a lifetime. The Rules have clear, absolute answers to any romantic dilemma. Let me help you win the heart of Mr.Right today!

Dr. Diane Garfinkle, Great Neck, Long Island, 46, Psychologist, married.
(516) 225-2297 and (718) 897-6249
Available: 7 days a week before 9:00 PM.
I got married with the help of The Rules and as a psychologist now help other women get married. The Rules puts into words what women instinctively knew from the beginning of time, but this generation got confused about.

Martine Guérette, Montréal Québec, 46, Rules program leader and consultant.
(514) 384-0541, (Mon-Fri 8am-8pm)
martine@femmeacademie.com
The rules are the guidelines to a success love story. It’s a fact, he will never be as committed if he didn’t pursue you badly enough. It works and does wonders.

Sarah Keast, Sydney, Australia, 30, Management Consultant (mining), married.
s_keast@yahoo.com 
(011) (+61) 404 158 046 (Available: various hours)
Happily married and still practicing TR!!
TR has saved me time and emotional energy. It gives me the strength to be happy with who I am.

Anne M., Denver, Colorado, 42, consultant, single, dating.
(303) 881-0174
amcgurty@strategizeandorganize.com
Available: Evenings and weekends and by appointment during the day.
Learning to set boundaries and spending time only with those who want to be with me!

Rachel M., Seattle, WA, 56, Attorney, Divorced
(206) 724-2322
rachelmiyoshi@gmail.com
Availability: evenings and weekends
The Rules taught me how to be disciplined enough to meet quality men, recognize 'the one', wait for commitment, find true romance in a relationship, and say 'next' when it's necessary to move on.

Fabia Maserati, Bologna, Italy, export sales manager
schema2@hotmail.it or maseratifabia@libero.it
Thanks to Ellen and Sherrie and The Rules I am now a very happy wife with 4 beautiful children! The rules has completely changed in a more positive and healthy way all my relationships, not only with my husband, but with everybody!

Katherine McCord, New York City, 38, yoga and Pilates teacher, dating.
(212) 873-5590
kbruni@nyc.rr.com
Available: 7 a.m.-9 p.m.
They improved my self-esteem and ability to enforce boundaries.

Edna McIntosh, Bronx, New York, 50, Personal and Business Coach, single.
(718) 652-4454 (Mon-Fri. 12-9 pm)
coachedna@yahoo.com (Mon-Sat)
Saturdays 1:30-3:00 Live Support Group in NYC contact Edna for more information.  Call or e-mail Edna for the telephone number of the NEW Rules Telephone Support Group.
I am much more positive about myself, my life and my relationships with men, where now I am approached and sought after by men, I no longer chase them -- in fact all my relationships are cleaner and much more positive.

Frances Mitchell, Las Vegas, Nevada, 30-ish, dating and etiquette consultant, single. (702) 370-3449
fmitchell7@earthlink.net
When the first Rules book came out, I felt like I had a revelation! I seemed to understand what I had been doing wrong with guys and how to improve my dating skills. It's also a great way to learn how to improve your life by not obsessing over catching a husband and focusing on living your life.

Novayen A-K Aishire Olson, MBA, California, 39, Life and Relationship Coach, Single.
(626) 390-8311
soulmatesunlimitedinternational@yahoo.com
Available: Saturday & Sunday

Melonie Opland, Jackson, MI, 37, writer, married.
(586) 598-1542
writerite@msn.com
"I'm proud to be a Rules Girl. It has not only made me feel better about myself, it has enabled me to find Mr. Right to marry, instead of always dating
Mr. Right now.' I'm completely complete!

Blossom Ridge, Rochester, MI, 44, creative arts, single.
(313) 729-8109
coachblossom@yahoo.com  (Anytime)
Men treat me well, I have more fun dating and waste less time. I also specialize in WUMFS (Waiting Until Marriage For Sex).

Happy Rupapa, Japan, 32, Assistant Professor, married.
happyrupapa@yahoo.co.jp
Before The Rules, my relationships didn't work very well. Then I applied TR on my new boyfriend and after only five months of dating, he proposed to me and now I am enjoying my happy married life.

Megumi Sagioka, Osaka Japan, 35, separated.
080-1427-2977
pink_989@msn.com
I learned that having self-confidence/being a CUAO is one of the greatest traits to attract a man! TR is not only the way to be loved by the right man, but to better know ourselves. I hope to use TR to help girls become happier!

Céline Sauvet, France, 26, teacher, married. Speaks English, French, and Spanish.
06-67-17-58-39 (by appointment only/ sur RV uniquement)
http://therulesaddict.ifrance.com/
Quick instantaneous question (question brève avec réponse par “chat”, emailez moi d abord à l’adresse AOL pour que je connaisse votre pseudo et vous rentre dans mes contacts msn): sucrecandy4@hotmail.com (write a mail first to the AOL address so that I will know your name online and enter you in my contact list)
E-mail consultation (analyse de relation par email): celinesauvet@aol.com
The Rules improved my self-esteem and my vision of a relationship. If a man does not treat you as his princess, then he’s not worth a thought and you’ll focus in other areas in your life rather than him!!

Monica Sauvigne, Seattle, Washington, 46, gardener, single.
(206) 353-9715
savagreen@gmail.com (By appointment)
By following The Rules, you spend the time, energy and attention that you used to spend on men, on yourself. This can transform your life!

Manami M. T., Japan, 31, a college instructor (inter-cultural communication, Teaching English as a Second Language, American cultural studies), married.
E-mail: counseling@therulesnippon.com
Website: http://therulesnippon.com
They used to tell me I could never get married, because I don’t have a family, just a disabled brother. I wanted a family. I practiced TR, and finally I got married! He loves me so much and he is very supportive and understanding. TR made it happen!

J. Taylor, Burbank, CA, since April 2005.
Private e-mail and phone consults, bi-annual support group meetings, telephone bridge on Sundays, from 5-6 p.m. PST.
Please see website for details and to be added to mailing list.
Website: www.rulesgirls.net
E-mail: rulesgirls@gmail.com
The Rules worked for me, let it work for you!

Olivia Thomas, 45, self-employed, married (second marriage).
(757) 437-3956 (Tues-Sun, anytime with appointment).
oliviaocean@aol.com
I am married. The Rules work!

Dr. Tish, Las Vegas, Nevada, spiritual advisor, widow.
(702) 456-3128, (702) 392-8392 and (800) 573-4785 x4471
E-mail: drtish7@aol.com
Website: www.drtish.org
Available (by appointment only)
I have lived by The Rules all my life even before the book was written and frankly, it is the only way to be successful in dating and marriage

Meg Walker, Houston, Texas, 46, graphic artist, divorced/single.
(832) 518-9619 Available (by appointment only)
rulesadvice@yahoo.com (Anytime)
I date with more self-esteem and men treat me like a prize jewel.


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