CERTIFIED RULES DATING AND RELATIONSHIP COACHES

 certified Rules Dating and Relationship Coaches completed training through a 12-week course with Ellen and Sherrie and have been thoroughly tested on their Rules knowledge. They are all over the world and they are ready to help you! Please contact the coach of your choice regarding appointments and payment. When writing to Rules coaches, be sure to put “The Rules Book” in the subject of your e-mail, otherwise it may be deleted.

SUGGESTED PRICING

(rates are at the discretion of individual coaches)

PHONE CONSULTATIONS
30-minutes $50
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E-MAIL CONSULTATIONS $50
(Includes a lengthy response and one follow-up exchange)
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QUICK QUESTION $25
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Do you know someone who would benefit from our Dating and Relationship Coach course  or Rules School course? Receive a free 30-minute phone consultation ($250 value) with Ellen and Sherrie when she signs up! Be sure she lists you as a referral in our sign-up form.

COACHES

For individual coaching or for information about her fabulous Rules phone meetings, contact Edna at (646) 418-5507 or CoachEdnaMc@gmail.com

Maya E., Miami Beach, FL

mother, divorced, dating Available daytime, nighttime, weekends (support groups)

“The Rules have helped me get my life back, not just in the romance department, but all around, by reminding me that I’m a CUAO and by providing guidelines for living in a happy, easy-going state of mind. I love The Rules! They work! Looking forward to working with you.”

Lyn Paul, Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia

Certified Dating Coach and Life Coach-Happily Married

“E-mail via my website to receive a complimentary 30-minute private consultation. Having studied The Rules for over 10 years and having been personally trained and coached by Ellen and Sherrie, I can show you how to learn from your mistakes, have an amazing relationship, and date with success! Don’t waste years of your life!”

Kim Evazians, Austin, TX Dating & Relationship Coach. Very happily married. kim.evazians@gmail.com www.SecretsoftheModernGeisha.com Secret Rules Group: www.facebook.com/groups/flyingwhitesilk www.facebook.com/moderngeisha Twitter: http://twitter.com/RulesGeisha “Available for consults, Skype classes and secret mentoring group.” “Happily married and helping women get to the altar faster!”

Vanessa Taylor, Los Angeles, CA, Married.
Coach and Author of Text. Love. Power.: The Ultimate Girl’s Relationship Guide for Texting and Dating in the New Millennium www.TextLovePower.com E-mail to schedule your private e-mail or phone consultation
Vanessa@PlatinumGirlCelebrityBlog.com www.PlatinumGirlCelebrityBlog.com
“The Rules teaches you how to get and keep your guy. It worked for me. Let it work for you!”

Amy Rachelle  NYC Masters Degree, Married, Makeup Artist, Weight Loss and Makeover/Fashion expert Private e-mail, in person, and phone consultations as well as phone meetings. amy@datingamanformarriage.com www.datingamanformarriage.com

“I got married using The Rules and can help you get married too! If you want an exciting dating life, a stable relationship and a strong, happy marriage, contact me! Check out my fabulous head-to-toe makeover services. Don’t take my word for it– click to read glowing testimonials and professional endorsements.”

India Kang, London, UK Married, Rules coach, Matchmaker, Blogger and TV presenter Available according to your schedule and time zone. Rules coaching, support group, support calls, Rules Girl meet up and more www.indiakang.com india@indiakang.com “The wisdom within The Rules is an integral part of any dating and relationship journey. The Rules help you date with complete confidence and dignity.”

Marie Michaels, Portland, OR and SF Bay Area, CA
B.S. – Psychology, M.S. – Public Health, Certified Dating Coach – Happily Married
mariemichaels411@gmail.com (phone, e-mail, in person)
“The Rules are great! I got married for the first time in my mid 30’s. TR helped me wait for Mr. Right and catch him by being a challenge. I know how hard dating is and will help you develop a strategy that ensures you also meet and marry the man of your dreams. Don’t waste time or settle for less!”

Dr. Dina Sgambati-Klus, Chiropractor and Coach, Hoboken, NJ, Happily married 11 years, Mom of 2
LetHimPursueYou@gmail.com
“Successful at work, but not in relationships? Years spent with a Buyer Beware?  Together we can apply The Rules to your dating life, position yourself to be pursued and “Capture the Heart of Mr. Right”. All this WITHOUT even trying to “make things happen.”

Tatiana Rad, Cambridge, UK tatianarad15@gmail.com “The Rules have helped many women all over the world to overcome troublesome relationships to achieve happiness and have amazing husbands. Grateful to Ellen and Sherrie.” Available on weekends for consultations and support in English, Greek, Serbian and Italian language.

Maria A., Geneva, Switzerland, math teacher, dating, fluent in English, French, Russian relationships.ethics@gmail.com “The Rules is my guide to femininity and a healthy relationship. I will help you analyze your situation and find a solution. You can count on me to go the extra mile to help you find your soul mate! “

Timea, Geneva, Switzerland, accountant, dating, fluent in English, French, German and Hungarian.
“Studying The Rules changed profoundly not only my dating life, but all other aspects of my life as well. Let me help you find your own Mr. Right and do The Rules from date zero to your wedding day!”
nymphea.tr@gmail.com

Rachel P, London, UK, Rules coach and nutritionist. E-mail, Skype and phone consultations in English and French rachelpathak@yahoo.co.uk “Honored to have been trained by Ellen and Sherrie. The Rules have helped me avoid going-nowhere relationships and love those who love me. Let me help you become a CUAO and marry Mr. Right!”

Jacqueline Fernandez, Mexico City, Performer/Instructor/Mother, Divorced- In a Rules Relationship Fluent in English and Spanish English: lovetrcoach@yahoo.com Spanish: autoestima_en_el_amor@yahoo.com.mx “TR have not only helped me with my romantic relationship but also with family, friends and colleagues. They have given me the inner strength and stability of conduct needed in each area of my life. Las Reglas no solo funcionan en el amor sino en cada área de la vida. ¡Practícalas!

Samia Massoud, Vancouver, Canada 604-779-557 info@urbandating.com www.urbandating101.com Helping women in every time zone find love and happiness by phone, e-mail, Skype and in person. I will help women move on from a broken heart and find hope and love in the world of chaotic dating after divorce.”

Marion O., Germany Married, Fluent in German and English http://therulesfordatingdeutsch.blogspot.de/ rulesgirl_1@hotmail.com

“Die ‘Regeln’ sind ein wunderbarer Weg, ein eigenständiges Leben zu führen u. Erfüllung in Liebe/Ehe zu finden –The Rules are a wonderful way to lead an independent life and at the same time find fulfillment in love/marriage.”

Anita S, Lancashire, UK, Rules Coach, Beauty Therapist Beautifulsecrets@hotmail.co.uk “Guys are definitely not like us girls! Girls need rules (boundaries) so we don’t get hurt. Ellen and Sherrie have given me insights into how to have a wonderful relationship. Please contact me so I can pass this tried and true way of dating onto you!”

Jessica Trusty, Colorado, Art Therapist, not married Trustyjoy@gmail.com (970) 309-6455 “The Rules is the key for any stage you are in whether you’re married, in a stagnant long term relationship, or single and dating. By understanding the mistakes many woman make in relationships you will know how to be in one that is fulfilling and not get hurt in the process!”

Ana M. , Dating and Relationship Coach, London Cambridge UK Married, fluent in English and Russian anastasia_co@hotmail.com www.therulescambridge.squarespace.com “Having been asked by friends to help them out with relationship troubles, I came across The Rules and realized it had the answers. Having being coached by Ellen and Sherrie, I am passionate about helping girls to rediscover love and avoid unnecessary heartache. I can help you develop your own strategy on how to meet and get married to the man of your dreams!”

Linda Borovtsova, Life Coach, Dating & Relationship Coach, Psychologist, Russia Mother, divorced and happily dating. Skype consultations in English and Russianwww.1daytoday.ru lborovtsova@gmail.com “If you’d like to be more confident, loved and happy just do The Rules ASAP! Don’t waste time! I am happy at last, thanks to E&S and TR! I help women date with confidence and live in harmony and balance between their jobs and relationships.”

Jancy Machado, lawyer/writer, relationship consultant, married, Brazil 
contato@asregrasdaconquista.com.br www.asregrasdaconquista.com.br  “After becoming tired of bad relationships, I discovered The Rules and it changed my life! Now I have a happy marriage with a wonderful man. I am so grateful that I have decided to help women do The Rules in all aspects of their lives. This is my true mission in life. Thank you, Ellen and Sherrie!”


Karenna Alexander, Connecticut, dating
coachkarenna@karennaalexander.com www.karennaalexander.com Facebook: BootcampRuleswithKarenna Twitter: @coachkarenna “The Rules philosophy has helped me weed out Mr. Wrongs and led me to see how respecting the differences between men and women can have fabulous payoffs in a relationship, like electricity, ease, and being adored by the man of your dreams.”

Debbie Sedgley, in a relationship, London, UK Certified Dating & Relationship Coach, INLPTA Certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Master Practitioner & Leisure Manager BSc (Hons) Sports Science, debbiesedgley@gmail.com www.debbiesedgley.wordpress.com “The Rules have helped improve my life. I’d love the opportunity to help you experience the same!”

Daira, Life/Dating & Relationship Coach and Personal Trainer, Florida support@bflyfitness.com www.bflyfitness.com/dating-and-relationship-coach “The Rules transformed my life, helping me to create opportunities; increase my confidence, power, and self-discipline; and establish boundaries with men. Having been coached by Ellen and Sherrie, I can help you apply The Rules, so you can transform your life too!”

Natalia Stepina, Moscow, Russia (Fluent in Russian)

Top corporate executive, divorced with 2 grown up kids, dating

NataliaTheRules@gmail.com

“The Rules helped me assess my mistakes in the past, opened a new perspective for the future, and made my life much more easy going, full and happy. And that’s definitely because I am CUAO!”

Iro Rosario, Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic

Cosmetic, Medicine/Weight Loss & Makeover Expert, Dating and Relationship Coach

Mother, Widow and Engaged by TR

E-mail, in person, phone & Skype consultations in English and Spanish

www.femeniro.com

irorosario@gmail.com

Charlotte Cressey, Orange County, CA. Meditation and Yoga Instructor

Phone, e-mail, video conferencing, and in-person consultations.

www.veganwellness.net

Charlotte.Cressey@gmail.com

“The Rules have helped me date with Confidence, Class, and Sass! Ellen and Sherrie’s important work has taught me to be the best I can be and that’s translated into more positive dating experiences. Before TR, dating depleted my energy. TR boosted my energy and made me feel great! I’d love to support you on your path.”

Amelia McMillan, UK

Married

ameliarosamund@hotmail.com 

www.pinterest.com/rosamunddaisy  

www.facebook.com/ameliarosamund.com “I have used TR for 15 years and I am happily married with a beautiful daughter. TR helped me wait for Mr. Right and never waste time with Mr. Wrong.”

 

Dr. Sandy Matthews, Florida Ph.D., Psychologist/Life Coach, (Very Happily) Married drsandymatthews@gmail.com (Skype, Phone, E-mail)

“I am in my second successful Rules Marriage (the first lasted 32 years until he died). I have trained with E&S in person and online since 1996.  TR are not just about getting married, but dating with boundaries and self-esteem. I love helping women find love and the marriage of their dreams!”

Miyuki, Boston, MASS.

Ph.D. in history, speaks English and Japanese

“Without The Rules, I would never be this happily married! I would like to share this wonderful experience with you.”

Diane. T, Paris, France

writer, single

“The Rules is for me beyond a book about relationships; it’s a way of life for every modern woman who wants to succeed in her career and her private life! Yes, we can have it all!”

Teresa, Minneapolis, MN

Trend Manager, Single

“The Rules is hands-down the best dating advice for women out there! Let me help you apply it to your life and help you end up with the man of your dreams!”

Janice E, IL, greater Chicago/ Milwaukee area

writer and coach, happily remarried

“Tired of endless dating and go-nowhere relationships? I explain HOW and WHY The Rules work so you can build a great relationship and beautiful Rules marriage, as I did. E-mail today for empathetic, in-depth, straight-up advice.”

Bree, Madison, WI

dating and marriage coach, divorced and happily dating Available anytime

“Never chase a guy! If he is interested, he’ll find you! The Rules changed my life and all my relationships. Love those who love you. Heartbreaks are in the past with The Rules. You will find pure happiness and a loving marriage fast with The Rules.”

Mariam Sheriff Osman, Cairo, Egypt

senior accountant, married

“The Rules have helped me to move on, to understand who loves me and who doesn’t really care, to not waste my time and finally to marry Mr. Right.”

Dr. Marilee Garfield, White Plains, NY

Doctor of Social Work, LCSW (licensed psychotherapist in NY State) widowed, mother, engaged Available anytime: e-mail, face to face, and telephone sessions.

“I believe The Rules is the ultimate self-esteem guide for women. Being personally trained by Ellen and Sherrie was the thrill of a lifetime. The Rules have clear, absolute answers to any romantic dilemma. Let me help you win the heart of Mr. Right today. I am getting married again in middle age and love to help Baby Boomer women, though I’m great with all ages. Many life problems solved!”

Michelle Goh, Singapore arouz@hotmail.sg http://www.completeme.com.sg/ Happily Married & Mother of 1 “I can help you be a Date Unlike Any Other to get your Mr. Right.

Annabelle, London, UK

Consultant/Rules Dating Coach/Dance teacher, happily dating consultation available in English and French

“Thanks to The Rules you will stop spending numerous hours wondering why he didn’t call! Instead you will be too busy dating men who love you and treat you like a princess and will eventually find your Mr. Right!”

Suze M., Tampa, FL

military, divorced

“The Rules have helped me date with confidence and put past dating experiences behind me.”

Monique B., Baltimore-DC metro area

single, happily dating

“My former co-worker did The Rules and is now happily married! The Rules works!”

Gina W, Iowa

dating & relationship consultant, happily dating

“I am now a happily dating Rules Girl and enjoying imparting this knowledge to other women with disabilities so that they can be empowered as well!”

Robyn, Kansas

married with children

“From Single in the City to Happily Ever After—The Rules helped me find the love and life I always wanted. Let me help you achieve your dreams.”

Justine Kuriyama-Walls, Tokyo, Japan

relationship consultant, matchmaker, married, speaks English and Japanese Available every day, 11am-8pm

“The Rules have put the lights on the gray areas in relationships to help us get what we want.”

Erika, NYC coach, happily married and mother. Coach1Erika@gmail.com “TR became a part of my life. He proposed me in 3 months and we got married in 7. I got everything TR promised…a devoted Rules husband, amazing father and happy marriage. Our love grows each day… “

Martine Bernard, Boston, MA

hairstylist, single Available evenings and weekends

“The Rules has helped me look at and understand my past dating mistakes. The more boundaries I set with men, the better my life gets. TR helps women make wiser decisions, cherish themselves, and create happy relationships and marriages.”

Momo, Hong Kong, China

assistant to president, engaged

“When I met my fiancé, I decided to follow The Rules because he is the man of my dreams. I want to share this great experience with many others.”

Marla Bishop, London, England

dating coach, married Available anytime

“After 12 years of on and off dating, my boyfriend became my husband.”

Angelique B., Europe

dating coach

Debbie C., San Diego, CA

teacher, married Available evenings and weekends

“The Rules have helped me set boundaries, date successfully, and eventually marry Mr. Right!”

Katrina Masi, Sydney, Australia

community services, married

“Doing The Rules on the man of my dreams resulted in a proposal in under a year. I know exactly how he feels about me, never doubt his love and live a very happy life. No more crying and heartache over men.”

Ellen C., New York City and Long Island

social worker, single, dating Available 9 am-10 pm (212) 613-5455

“In helping women to do The Rules, you see how The Rules empower women and how men pursue them and propose.”

Diana D., Miami, FL

masters in mental health, social worker, single

“I do not dwell as much as I used to on past relationships. I just say ‘It didn’t work out, next!’ The Rules success stories really inspire me to be more Rules-y so that my future husband finds me.”

Jae Ellis, Northern VA / Washington, DC

dating coach, in a relationship

“The Rules are the path to a wonderfully alluring feminine presence that catches the heart of Mr. Right.”

Dagmar G., Graz, Austria

married Preferred availability: 2-10 p.m.

“I used to blame myself for being too shy to talk to a man first and considered myself ‘weak’ when I could not ‘fight’ for a man. Now that I know The Rules, I am glad that this was wrong and that it is the other way around… man must pursue woman.”

Dr. Diane Garfinkle, Great Neck, NY

psychologist, married Available 7 days a week before 9 pm for in-person consultations (516) 225-2297

“I got married with the help of The Rules and as a psychologist now help other women get married. The Rules puts into words what women instinctively knew from the beginning of time, but this generation got confused about.”

Sarah Keast, Sydney, Australia

management consultant (mining), married

“Happily married and still practicing The Rules! The Rules has saved me time and emotional energy. It gives me the strength to be happy with who I am.”

Monica V, Seattle, WA

homemaker, married Available by appointment

“By following The Rules, you spend the time, energy and attention that you used to spend on men, on yourself. This can transform your life!”

Rachel M., Seattle, WA

attorney, divorced Availability evenings and weekends

“The Rules taught me how to be disciplined enough to meet quality men, recognize ‘the one,’ wait for commitment, find true romance in a relationship, and say ‘next’ when it’s necessary to move on.”

Katherine McCord, New York City

yoga and pilates teacher, dating Available 7am-9pm

“The Rules improved my self-esteem and ability to enforce boundaries.”

Frances Mitchell, Las Vegas, NV

dating and etiquette consultant, single

“When the first Rules book came out, I felt like I had a revelation! I seemed to understand what I had been doing wrong with guys and how to improve my dating skills. It’s also a great way to learn how to improve your life by not obsessing over catching a husband and focusing on living your life.”

Céline, France

wife and mother

“The Rules improved my self-esteem and my vision of a relationship. If a man does not treat you as his princess, then he’s not worth a thought and you’ll focus on other areas in your life rather than him!”

Anne M., Scottsdale, AZ

consultant, single, dating Available evenings and weekends and by appointment during the day

“Learning to set boundaries and spending time only with those who want to be with me!”

Simone, Zhejiang, China

dating

“The Rules work a lot better than I expected! Now I have more confidence and fun dating and so can you!”

Dr. Dani, Boston, MA

actress and coach, single

“I am 100% certain that The Rules work! Men respond to action and as Rules girls we need to act as if any man would be lucky to have us and then just do The Rules.”

Karina Dufty, New Jersey

logistics analyst, married Available anytime

“The Rules helped me date with self-esteem and marry my husband.”

Dr. Linda C. Fernandez, New York City

psychologist, divorced, dating Available Mon-Thurs 12pm-2pm

“I learned that love is easy when you do The Rules because you are not trying to make someone love you and you are really taking very good care of yourself at the same time which is very attractive to men.”

Olivia Thomas

self-employed, remarried

“I am married. The Rules work!”

JAPANESE SPEAKING COACHES

Kayako, Tokyo, Japan, married
n_kayako@nifty.com
“I got married using The Rules a year ago! My boyfriend lived in Osaka and moved to my area to marry me.”
http://ameblo.jp/happy-rennai-lab

Chika, Tokyo, Japan, married
loveruleslife4u@gmail.com
“I have learned not to chase anyone, but to be a CUAO and be treated well in my life. I am happily married now.”

Naoko Kikuchi, Fukuoka, Japan married
naobecchi@gmail.com
http://ameblo.jp/naobecchi/
“I have been living as a Rules Girl. I enjoy this life and don’t know why you are not!”

Miwa, Tokyo, Japan, married

“Before I learned The Rules, I was doing the opposite! I wasn’t satisfied with my love life and I got divorced. Now I am married. The Rules totally changed my life!”

Runo, Tokyo, Japan, married

“After a break up, I read The Rules, and now my relationship is great. The Rules changes everything!”

Yukiko Saito Nigata-ken, Japan

married

“It took me years to master The Rules, so I understand how girls have a hard time conquering their dating problems. I am now happily married. Please contact me whenever you have questions about how to use The Rules in your love life.”

Mari, Tokyo, Japan

single

“Since I have learned The Rules, dating men is much easier. I hope to be happily married and help other women do The Rules as well.”

Rika, Tokyo, Japan

married

“I learned The Rules and now know why nothing worked before. I am in a great relationship today!”

Emily, Tokyo, Japan

office worker, married

“The Rules has improved my life dramatically. I would like to share The Rules with women who are looking for Mr. Right!”

Satoko Kimura, Fukuoka, Japan

University Adjunct Lecturer in Psychology, single

“The Rules leads you to the happy life! Every woman who does TR is loved and cared for by her husband and his family.”

Yukko,Tokyo, Japan

“I have learned to be treated valuably from The Rules. So many more men have been interested in me now in my 30s than in my 20s when I didn’t know The Rules. Everyone, even women, treat me better. Every weekend I date other men. I never thought this would happen to me!”

Happy Rupapa, Japan

assistant professor, married

“Before The Rules, my relationships didn’t work very well. Then I applied TR on my new boyfriend and after only five months of dating, he proposed to me and now I am enjoying my happy married life.”

Megumi Sagioka, Osaka, Japan

divorced

“I learned that having self-confidence and being a CUAO is one of the greatest traits to attract a man! The Rules is not only the way to be loved by the right man, but to better know ourselves. I hope to use The Rules to help girls become happier!”

Sophia, Osaka, Japan

married

“The Rules taught me to be independent, treat myself well, and have a great relationship with my husband!”

CONTACTS (U.S.)

Contacts are here to help—reach out to one of them to keep from making a dating mistake.

Alaska

Kristen write2kristen@gmail.com

California

Berkeley

Lucia W. lucia_lefay@yahoo.com

Chula Vista

Michelle R. ninashell77@yahoo.com

Los Angeles

      Chiaku Hanson write.maledecode@gmail.com, www.maledecoded.com

Yvette ychomes@yahoo.com

Rebecca Raskind Bexmarie@gmail.com

Julia julia@lct2039.com

San Diego

Brooke M. californiagirlinlondon@gmail.com

Raquel B. raquelbundy@gmail.com

San Fernando Valley

Marion G. marion.goodman@gmail.com

Ventura

Michele michlab@aol.com

Colorado

Boulder

Marguerite ritamckenna@earthlink.net

Florida

Jessica Jessica.CUAO@gmail.com

Jean sjean18@gmail.com

GEORGIA

Theresa B.  Theresa@bravacorp.com

Illinois

Emily S. emily.f.sheldon@gmail.com

Indiana

Julie H. karmaevita@aol.com

Kentucky

Gina S. gsantonia@bellsouth.net

Michigan

Michele michlab@aol.com

Cassandra cassandra.smith2@gmail.com

Eileen eileenclark98@yahoo.com

MINNESOTA

Minnesota Support Group minnesotarulesgirlclub@gmail.com

New JerseY Demetria FabDemetriaNicole@gmail.com

New York

Manhattan

Lisa K. ljkoch@earthlink.net

Oregon

Simone sgordon1@uoregon.edu (for teens)

SOUTH CAROLINA

Lanette Lane lanettelane@aol.com

 
TENNESSEE EAST 

Stacy Ann  samwill1616@aol.com

Texas

Dallas

Debbie deborahnjacobs@yahoo.com

Fort Worth

Kendra goalexplosion@gmail.com

Houston

Dee G. dgardner500@yahoo.com

VIRGINIA

Sheila A. sheilaarnold39@aol.com

WASHINGTON D.C.

Theresa B.  Theresa@bravacorp.com

Wisconsin

Bree Bvg-V@charter.net, Certified Rules Dating Coach, Free Monthly Rules Support Conference Calls

CONTACTS (INTERNATIONAL)

Australia

Canberra / ACT

Lynn lynnnerdal@mac.com

Canada

Tanya tanya_25@yahoo.com

Bulgaria

Nikoleta therules@abv.bg

Dominican Republic

Iro irorosario@gmail.com

Nadia M. angel_of_angel@hotmail.com (MSN chat available)

England

Tanya rulescontact@gmail.com

Rachel G. rachelannegrant@googlemail.com

Germany

Ariane maennerdschungel@gmx.de

Nicole muenchener_rulesgirls@yahoo.de

Renate Z. rforl@gmx.net

SINGAPORE       Michelle Goh arouz@hotmail.sg

Spain

Diana C. (011) 34-609954536

Wales

Leigh-Catherine S. beautylcs@yahoo.co.uk

Note: Due to the overwhelming number of calls, e-mails and Facebook messages we receive every day, we are not able to answer questions that are not submitted via phone and/or e-mail consultation pages. All consultations and courses are non refundable.

Disclaimer: We are not licensed to practice psychology, and The Rules is not intended to replace psychological counseling, but is simply a dating philosophy based on our own experiences and those of thousands of women who have contacted us. E&S

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, The Rules Consultation Corp  By permission of Grand Central Publishing, from The Rules, © 1995  Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider