Kim, married 2012 <br>“I found Prince Charming by following The Rules and so can you! I rarely called him or met him halfway. He loved the chase.” “Without knowing The Rules, I would never be happily married as such. I sincerely appreciate The Rules.”—Miyuki, married 2011 Jag, married 2008 <br> “<i>The Rules</i> helped me keep things real and avoid time-wasters, so that I weeded out everyone except the man who really, really loves me.” Chris D., married 2001 <br> “After doing <i>The Rules</i> and learning to date with self-esteem and confidence, I met and married the man of my dreams. <i>The Rules</i> work!” Debbie C., married 2001 <br> “Following TR helped me set boundaries with men, date successfully, and eventually marry Mr. Right! TR really pay off when you are married, too. I highly recommend TR!” Leelo-Dianne, married 2003 <br> “<i>The Rules</i> work great with an ex-military man because they ‘get’ the discipline thing.” Iro, married 2006 <br> “Girls, there is someone perfect for you out there and you just need to decide not to waste your time!” Elaine J., married 2005 <br> “I never would have married such an amazing, intelligent and handsome man if it were not for <i>The Rules</i>. Thank heaven for you!”  The photo was taken the day my husband proposed to me. Celine, married 2008 <br> “TR helped me to have boundaries and to be more independent; the result is the man who loves you has to pursue you, and it is wonderful.” Joy, married 2005 <br> “Tobias and I were married after 2 years of practicing <i>The Rules</i> during a long distance relationship between England and New York. We married in his home country of Germany in  2005 and our marriage is very balanced because I followed <i>The Rules</i> to the letter.” Brooke, married January, 2009 <br> “<i>The Rules</i> helped me to re-establish myself as a priority in my own life and, consequently, I found a man who makes me the priority in his!” Akiko, Rules Dating Coach, Married June 26th 2009! Amanda married Brian in August, 2006 <br> “During high school and college, I had no clue about <i>The Rules</i>.  I was overweight and took little care of my cosmetics.  Whatever man was interested me, I constantly called him and spilled my life story to get close. Then I read <i>The Rules</i> and realized what I had been doing wrong. When Brian asked me out, I didn not return his phone calls and waited for him. I did not tell him my life story and spill my guts right away.  I acted honest but mysterious. Brian proposed one year later.” Andrea, married October, 2008 <br> “After reading <i>The Rules</i> it became second nature and then I met Mr. Right, everything just fell into place, just like the book said it would.” Stacy, married June, 2008 <br> “I cannot tell you how much I owe to you both for such wonderful advice over the years!  After 6 years of on-again, off-again dating with a non-Rules man, I met my future husband, and we were married within 12 months!  I was very clear regarding his feelings for me!  Thanks again!” The Rules work for gay men as well...I was a Rules Boy and am now married. Sylvia, married 2007 <br> “Before I read <i>The Rules</i> I always chose the wrong men who were not really interested in me. So they left me and I was always hurt. I came across <i>The Rules</i> when I was 38 years old and I started to be a Rules Girl. Now I am married happily for nearly 2 years with a wonderful man. I stick to <i>The Rules</i> and he asks me nearly every day if I would marry him again!” Randi M., married 2005 <br> “My husband answered my ad on JDate and we have a baby boy.” Elizabeth W., married in 2000 <br> “Your book helped me land the man of my dreams. Ten years later we are still going strong. To this day, I beg women to follow <i>The Rules</i>” K, married June 2010<br> “ With the help of a Rules dating coach, I was proposed to after one year of dating.  I never dreamed I would get this happiness!” Abbe L., married July 2008<br> “Thanks to The Rules, my husband who is 14 years younger pursued me, a divorced mom with 3 boys, with an unstoppable passion to win his prize.” Caroline D., married 2002<br> “<i>The Rules</i>  transformed me from the girl you date to the girl you marry. Everything happened for me just as you promised in the book!” Kristen L., married December 2011<br> “The Rules work like magic and make romance fun!”


Dear married Rules Girls everywhere,

We have received so many wedding invitations and photos from our clients over the years that we decided to create a Rules Wedding Album right here to inspire single women to do The Rules! If you are interested in being a part of this album, please e-mail us your wedding photo (with or without your husband), a short quote about how The Rules helped you land Mr. Right, and what year you tied the knot. You can include your name(s) or send your submission anonymously. If you have already sent us a photo, please resend the photo indicating your permission to post it on our website along with the additional requested information.

Thank you and all the best,

Note: Due to the overwhelming number of calls, e-mails and Facebook messages we receive every day, we are not able to answer questions that are not submitted via phone and/or e-mail consultation pages. All consultations and courses are non refundable.

Disclaimer: We are not licensed to practice psychology, and The Rules is not intended to replace psychological counseling, but is simply a dating philosophy based on our own experiences and those of thousands of women who have contacted us. E&S

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, The Rules Consultation Corp  By permission of Grand Central Publishing, from The Rules, © 1995  Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider